New York City can tend to be quite the hostile environment. The majority of the people I pass seem irritated, preoccupied, or unstable. It can be overwhelming; the overcrowded subways and sidewalks, the pressure of needing to be in multiple places at once, and the obnoxiously loud city soundtrack. All of this negativity can lead to the misconception that no one in New York is friendly, but that just is not true.
So often, I get so caught up in wondering why everyone looks so angry, that I forget to assess how I’m presenting myself to all these “unfriendly” people. Then I realize, I’m walking around with my headphones in, my eyes down, and a frown stuck on my face. Why would anyone smile at that picture? We live in a world where, usually, we receive a response to what we first give. So if I want people to smile at me or approach me, maybe I should try to smile and appear approachable? I understand that for some people, like me, who are more reserved or shy, smiling or saying “hi” first can feel a bit unsettling. But truthfully, unless they’re just having the worst day or are a hateful person, they will most likely reciprocate the warm gesture. So my advice is just smile. Open your eyes to the beauty in this world, and look for the people who smile back. Although this may seem like such a simple gesture, sometimes the stress of life and chaos can make it feel like such a burden. But I promise, if you present yourself with a brighter and more inviting energy you will invite more positivity into your life.
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Jenavieve Anna Capri
Hi guys, I just wanted to pop in and let you know a few things about me. I'm a Commercial Dance major at Pace University. I nanny on the side to help me afford living in this beautiful city. I live by the three Ts - Trader Joes, TJ Max, and Target. If it's salted caramel anything, I will gladly put it in my mouth. In my eyes Disneyland is the OG and Disney World will never compare. Hopefully, you'll choose to continue to get to know me more through these blog posts and my social media. Connect With Me:
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